Oct 19, 2006 09:59 AM|Michael1965|LINK
When I got my copy of VWD/SQL it came free with a book called 'Build a Web Site Now! Microsoft Visual Web Developer 2005 Express Edition' by Jim Buyens (Microsoft Press). Chapter 16 is named 'Publishing your Database', with sub-headings:
'Copying a SQL Server', and 'Understanding and Connecting to SQL Server'. The chapter is full of big words and I'm sure that it addresses your issues. I'm pretty sure that you used to be able to download it for free, but this link is to the MS Press page http://www.microsoft.com/mspress/companion/0-7356-2212-4/
. The bottom link is to info re ASP.NET specialist hosters.