What value do you want to pre-populate it with? Today's date? What format? Will the user be able to change this date?
If the date value will always be the current date, then don't provide a textbox. Just insert GetDate() if you are using SQL Server, or Date() for Access.
Otherwise you will need to use FindControl to access the textbox:
Dim myTextbox As TextBox = CType(FormView1.FindControl("TextBox1"), TextBox)
myTextbox.Text = myDateValue
TextBox myTextBox = (TextBox)FormView1.FindControl("TextBox1");
myTextbox.Text = myDateValue;