Thanks for sharing this story - I've been raising these issues in the core team forums regarding hosting for larger companies, and subsequently approached godaddy in reference to hosting, support and some education that is required by both DotNetNuke core team and Hosting companies when doing large scale dnn hosting.
I have been working with a large hosting company working through installs, what's required, how to create custom templates on install, giving an overview on modules and providing them with a couple of resources, and Shaun met with them last week, and the outcome has fantastic in my opinion.
Although they had provided dnn hosting since 2004, September in fact, their understanding of DNN has been limited, and now with the impending release of DNN3.1 and documentation/infrastructure on web farms and in my opinion, this release will be fantastic. I know the guys are working on some important fine tuning and reluctantly, have held the release back a short time while making changes to important areas.
So, I've instigated something that was discussed a while ago about working closely with larger hosting companies to give better advice on how to manage dnn on their system, and believe it will make a better environment all round, as they don't know DNN as well as many of the developers in the community, and the users coming into the market, shouldn't have to go to these forums for support. They have not come in using dnn, but more to an environment where dnn was provided for them.
But again, good reading here to see the dilemmas / challenges we all have in running business and how vulnerable we are relying on support / knowledge of the tech teams who manage the servers.
And another thing, it's truly amazing how people do things - same industry, different practices..... and we often find out the hard way!!
Nina Meiers