Mok,
I had been in contact with the folks at godaddy, and after having them tell me they do '0' database support, I decided to switch to gate.com. Now, gate has the club starter kit available as a free extra. All you have to do is set the database, click the add club starter kit, and you are off and running. I am paying about 10.00 a month.
Now for the cool part. I did not want to use SQL scripts to manage my users, and like what the 2.0 kit had to offer. So instead of installing their free club kit option, I did the following:
I set up the database just like I would have normally.
I installed the 2.0 kit data into the root directory of my site.
I used visual studio to edit the web.config to point to my database, and a sql writer to add the information to the database.
I was up and running in about an hour. It was great, no access errors etc. I am not overly thrilled with the 10.00 a month as opposed to free, but I wasn't getting a great deal of feedback from people on how to get around all of the godaddy issues. Besides the fact that nobody at godaddy has the technical expertise to chnage trust, or even talk to me about the database.
Good Luck, let me know what you decide to try. If I can see one person get it working on godaddy, I'd consider giving it a second shot. THANKS!