Hello,
I have created a Community-Starter Kit Like web site, and added a service for the user to enter his/her email address and password and grab it's contacts then send hem with invitaion messages like hi5, myspace .. etc
This made the site send a lot of messages daily, may be upto 10 000 invitation Emails daily or may be more
so this made the hosting company suspended my account a lot cuz of spam and I have paid a lot to unsuspend it

I've tried to use:
  SMTPClientObj.DeliveryMethod = SmtpDeliveryMethod.Network;

to make messages reach the mail server directly, but they also have closed the account again, this happened with more than a hosting company
and sometimes mail service (specially hotmail) blocks my services' messages before it get closed by the hosting company

so is there are any legal way to do this, like these big services
or are there any bulk email send servers or methods that help me to get out of these problems

Thanks very much

There are two main options for you: 1) Set up your own SMTP server to send messages through (be careful as ISP companies like Comcast may blacklist you as well), or 2) purchase an account with a mail list service.  I'm not sure how much they cost, but the services usually implements a method for email recipients to remove themselves from your list, which complies with the CAN SPAM act.

Hi,

        am creating socail community website in the registraion form am asking user to enter his email id and password and i need to send invitation for all the the user in his mail box..am struck here..am not getting how to grab the email from the mailbox..can u please tell me how to grab the mail id from the mailbox....please do help me...

regards,

Vij

any one has any idea how to fetch email id in contacts...from mailbox...