in he item menu data bind....
you could do something like
if (e.item node == sitemap.currentnode.parent)
item.text = "<span class=\"selectedItemCSS\">" + text + "</span>";
check the syntax online at http://www.msdn.com or scott guthries blog for sure, but more orless that is what you will want to do.
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