CeOfFuture:current mode is inproc and i always loose session variables randomly very annoying
That will happen randomly if the process is recycled. You may request your hosting provider to not recycle the app pool not as often.
CeOfFuture:but i dont know how to configure them according to the goddady
Whilst you can use an out of process state provider like SQL state, you need to ensure this facility is provided by your provider.
http://idunno.org/articles/277.aspx
http://support.microsoft.com/kb/317604