Well, now you're making me wonder if I post to the wrong forums or don't post responsibly... I realize that handling 1000's of cases, as you folks have to do, would be a huge job; but at the same time it seems there should be a standard or measureable threshhold of some sort.
In the meantime, a rather important matter that I submitted for moderation a couple of days ago lies invisible to the viewing public; so I will drop this subject and free up your time for dozens of other cases that probably come in each minute.
At any rate, I second, third and fourth the feature of a "waiting for moderation" category in one's own "My Posts" section. This would be a very convenient tool, I'm sure, for many people, and would remove from me the disquieting notion and doubts related to not being responsible, posting to the wrong forum, etc.