No problem.
I am trying to publish a demo so I need a cheap solution.
so I have come with a solution of my own, to host web pages on the host side and mySQL database on my localmachine.
this way I will get low performance, but for a demo I guess it will be enough.
for some reason softstys doesn't allow it, and I couldn't connect from ASP.NET pages hosting on softsys, to my localmachine. contact to the support that confirmed it is not allowed.
maybe on easycgy host it allowed, I sent a query about that.
I know it allowed on spherewebhosting and ASPNIX, but I see here a very bad recomendetions, so I am backing off for now.
do you have another suggestions I might missed?