You can’t access the controls in your page from a webservice or from a page method, you have to remember that the webservices resides in your server and at this moment the gridview resides in the browser on the client’s side, in ASP.NET Ajax webservices are meant to receive and return data that can be manipulated by the client using JavaScript, you can use the updatepanel to do what you are trying to do.
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