After using ASP.NET ATLAS/AJAX in a production environment for close to a year ...
I don't use most controls in the toolkit for many reasons. One of them is that most of these controls are stricktly client-side and they do not interact well with the server side. For example, there is a new AutoComplete control that works good but it doesn't provide a way to call back the server when an item is selected from the list! I was so much expecting the Tab control, but when it came I noticed that it doesn't work with the Visual Studio page designer, so you have to go to the code view if you want to use it.
Honestly I don't think there is something for dummies in the AJAX Toolkit, unless you are doing really basic pages. It's very technical, the learning curve is 70 degrees steep, documentation is still not easy to reach and the features do not fit well in many scenarios.
But still I beleive it's a big and it has a bunch of great free features. I do love the AJAX extensions like the UpdatePanel and Timer Control.
So my advice to anyone would be ... if you are seriously going to get into AJAX make sure you have plenty of extra time for your project.
Neutrino